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Friday, October 5, 2012

Just plain blah...but grateful

Maybe it's just me, but over the past few days, here in Toronto, the weather has been less than optimal; Wednesday being the worst of them.  Dark, cloudy, humid, rainy, just plain blah.

Can weather dictate our emotions?  Do we have a choice?  Can we choose to make the most of the day?

For me, this week I have let the weather dictate my emotions.

Unlike some people, I have a window in my office (although it feels more like a prison cell window because of the metal bars and such, but I digress).  Throughout the day I catch myself looking out the window to see if the sun is shining, or if it's still cloudy.  When the sun shines through it brightens my whole office and I feel a lot better.  But, if it's dark and the lights in my office are lighting it up then I just feel a little down.

It's crazy how the weather can hamper my outlook on the day.  Some may say it's just coincidence, but I don't.

When I wake up in the morning what do I choose?  Do I choose to say that 'regardless of the weather I am going to have a great day'?  Sometimes, yes.  Other times, no.

I have been doing something at the end of each day to help me with being thankful for the day. Shortly after 9 o'clock pm each day I sit down at my kitchen table and right down a number of things: emotions I had, attitudes I recognized, old habits I am trying to let go of, and any other things that come to mind.  At the end of my writing comes the part that always brings my spirits up, the gratitude list.  No matter how bad of a day I have had (they have not been the best over the past week) I always right the things that I am grateful for that day.  What seems to happen is I see the positive things that happened in that day.  As crazy as it sounds if I only write that I am grateful for life, that is an amazing thing to be thankful for.

It makes me remember that days are given not just to complain about the bad things, but are given for us to learn and be grateful for simple, just another day.

I have had a pretty blah week.  My emotions have been up and down, but through it all I have seen things that I can be grateful for.

Can weather dictate emotions?  Yes, we can let it dictate our emotions, and I have sure let it dictate mine this week, but the greater thing to remember is to just be thankful and grateful for what we have.

We have so much and yet we are always complaining here in Canada.  Why is that?  My answer: because we never think about the things that we are grateful for; we let the negative things control our minds instead of letting the positive things flow from our mouths


Why do you think we are always complaining?


Let me hear what you have to think.


Till next time.